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Maybe because I love someone so much now, I start to think about relationships very often recently. I think being in a relationship is not easy at all.

After few months, people are becoming more relaxed, and might think that you two are settled, so stop trying to put effort in this relationship everyday like the beginning. Why are there so many couples end up separating and arguing? Not only because they no longer love each other, but very often its because they have being too relaxed for too long and forget that a relationship is something very delicate you need to constantly look after it, like flowers, if you don’t put it in the right soil, don’t know if it likes sun or shade, or don’t water it for too long, it dries and dies, then there are arguments or love will disappear in this relationship after awhile. Same with marriages, I have so many friends whose parents are not together, my parents argue very often, few times nearly devorced. And those people, men or women who have affairs outside their marriage, its not that they really love the other person, it’s that they forget why they used to love their husband or wife. Why? They can’t maintain their precious relationships, people may say because of their work, time or distance. Excuses!!! Even you stay together 24/7, if there is lack of effort from either one of you, be careful you might not last long. This person you are in relationship with supposed to be the one you love and care the most, no matter how far you go, what job you do, he or she is with you in your mind, loves and supports you.

Being together is everything about “we”, as I said you dont have to be together 24/7, if you believe the love between you two is genuine, you think about each other, care for each other, trust each other, you try to understand each other, and to work out the problems that make you two argue, there will be no barriers can stop you two loving each other. If you are in different countries, you can always make your way together; if you have different religions, it's something you believe, religion is not about fighting or against each other, the kindness of real religious people teach you to respect and accept. your parents may not like the person you choose, but if you think you have the right person, and all you need to do is to prove that you will be the best couple they have ever seen. exes, they are in the past, as long as they dont come back bothering you two, they are no harm, they wanna be friends with you, they should be happy for you finding your love. with friends, some of them may not be happy with you being with someone for certain reasons, but after a while, they will be fine, because they are your friends, if they really are.

There is no such a thing that you should regret about, you should realise when things happen. People can only learn from mistakes, if they are lucky, they realise and change at the early stage when there is a chance to go back and forgive; when its too late, the lucky person is probably the one comes next, because if you have learnt from what happened in the past, you wont let yourself to do that again. You try your best to keep your loved ones and yourself happy.